I won this book through the goodreads first reads program. I have to admit I hate the title, but I did really like the book. It has a lot of tips and advice for those who might need it, but all of the secrets are in little gray shaded boxes that can be ignored, if you just want to read the book as a memoir. It's a very honest memoir that shares her feelings and fears. I love the way she makes up names of people and places that she doesn't want to use the real name of, like Rock Star Surgeon, Caring Nurse, and Chain Drugstore. I do recommend the book, just ignore the stupid title - I guess we should give it a stupid pass, you'll understand that if you read the book.